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The reason you’re here is to improve your game and learn How To Get A Girl. In order to fully understand social dynamics with women you need to put your self inside the mind of a women. It is important to realize that extremely beautiful women have a slightly distorted view of reality. They know that they are hot and they want that reality to be validated. Beautiful women want to be placed on a pedestal and have men compete for their attention. They consistently demonstrate bratty behavior and have this internal dialogue that says ”I’m hot shit, you need my validation for sexual approval and I’m going to make you work your ass off for it. I’m am hard to get!”
The way to attract and seduce a beautiful woman is to disrupt her reality and make her work to validate her own perceived reality. What do I mean by this? If you play hard to get and offer her attention and then quickly pull away, offer attention and quickly pull away. She will begin to fight for your attention.
Because beautiful women identify themselves as being beautiful the second that reality is questioned they immediately fight to validate their reality.
To test my hypothesis, next time you are about to kiss a girl for the first time. Pull away and tell her that things are moving too fast. Then tell her that you aren’t that type of guy that just kisses a girl without knowing them. They will fight and try to prove that they are different from most girls. Next thing you know they will be fighting to kiss you.
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You’re dead wrong about beautiful women.
How would I know? Because my best friends are among the hottest in the world, including Playboy playmates and models.
Beautiful women don’t need some strange guy to validate them. As you pointed out, they already know they are hot. Acting like you think they aren’t isn’t going to affect them. All they have to do is look in a mirror.
I don’t know what women your method would work on. Maybe super insecure or very young women.
It’s human nature to seek validation of our perceived reality. It someone disputes our beliefs, we have a natural tendency to convince and persuade people otherwise. If someone walked up to you and said George W. Bush was the greatest president in the history of the United States. You would most likely feel the urge to refute the argument.
Only the insecure seek out constant validation.
I would argue about George Bush if I felt differently. Otherwise, I’d agree.
Under your theory, all a dorky loser would have to do to get a beautiful woman’s interest is tell her she’s ugly, and she’d be all entranced by him.
Doesn’t work that way.
We’re not encouraging men to treat women poorly or tell women that their ugly. If you think that you’re mistaken.
If you’re trying to manipulate women by negging them to make them feel insecure or to elevate yourself in the process, what is that then?
That is treating someone poorly. It’s disrespectful. If you don’t see that, you’re mistaken.
Not rude. Just a backhanded compliment.
Give me an example of an amazing backhanded compliment that would make me go, “Yeah, I really wanna hook up with this guy.”
Look at my photo. Go ahead. Give it your best shot.
It would never work in the context of this discussion. You’re expecting it.