Attraction, Attraction Process, Body Language, Dating, Eye Contact, female body language, Getting Girls, How Can I Get Girls, Preening, Psychology, PUA, Seduction, Smiling, Social Dynamics, Talking, Touch
How Can I Get Girls? is one of the most common question that men ask.
The attraction process follows a very predictable pattern when meeting an attractive person. Women are programmed through our evolutionary biology to react in a specific way. These programmed reactions occur through our body language. It can be difficult to interpret these subtle cues in a woman’s body language. In order to better understand female body language it is important to breakdown the stages of the attraction process.
Eye Contact – She begins by looking across the bar, when she spots an attractive guy. She waits until he notices her, then holds eye contact with him for 3 to 5 seconds and then turns away. He now keeps looking over at her to see if this happens again. The woman will deliver this treatment two to three times until the man realizes whats happening.
Smiling – She delivers flirtatious smiles. This is a quick half smile that is intended to give a prospective man the green light to make an approach.
Preening – She sits up straight in her chair or stands with perfect posture to emphasize her breasts. She crosses her legs to show them to the best advantage. If standing she will tilt her hips and tilt her head to one side to expose her neck and shoulder. She may lick her lips or flick her hair. She begins to play with her hair and continues to do so for a short time.
Talk – The man finally picks up on the subtle cues and makes his approach. He initiates conversation and tries to break the ice.
Touch – If she is interested in the man. She looks for an opportunity to initiate a light touch on the arm as an indicator of interest. Each level of touch indicates a higher level of intimacy.
These stages may seem trivial or even incidental, but it is very important to realize that women often times initiate the approach and encourage men to make the approach. It is important for a PUA to carefully examine the signals sent by women. It is in our biology. Women become more sexually active in the middle of the menstrual cycle, when they are most likely to conceive. It is during this time that women tend to act the most provocative and use these intense attraction signals and courtship gestures.
When men ask me the question “How Can I Get Girls?” I always direct them to the attraction process and courtship gestures that woman use to show that they are available.