Attraction Switches

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Men frequently ask us “How Can I Get Girls” so I each day I try to leave my students with a small pearl of wisdom that will help during the attraction and seduction process. Today I would like to go over female “Attraction Switches.”

The unconscious mind is constantly performing complex computations to make day-to-day decisions.  To speed up the decision making process our brain uses logical short-cuts to facilitate the operations to make better decisions quickly.  Our brain is programmed to seek evidence of social proof to make quality decisions.

Example of short-cut logic:

A beautiful woman walks in the room.  You recognize a giant diamond ring on the ring finger of her left hand.  You make the logical connection that this beautiful women is taken.  She is married.  You don’t have to ask her the question, your brain performed a logical short-cut to arrive at that conclusion.

Along with short-cut logic the female mind is programmed with a variety of  attraction switches that influence how you are perceived in the mind of a woman.  These switches allow women to make snap decisions / judgement to determine how attractive you are.

List of Attraction Switches in women:

“Alpha male”
“The ability to look after her and her children, financially and otherwise”
“Socially competant”
“Many friends”
“pre-approved by other females”
“intelligent”
“Confident”
“Funny”
“Leader of men”
“Has standards when comes to women”
“Many girlfriends”
“Discreet”

By understanding short-cut logic and attraction switches.  You can learn to flip those switches and maximize success with women.

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How Can I Get Girls

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Scarcity

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Each day I make an attempt to help men answer the question “How Do You Get Girls?” Each post contains a lesson in social dynamics and persuasion that can be helpful during the attraction and seduction process.  The concept that I would like to touch on today is called the “Scarcity” principle.  We are all effected by the power of scarcity in the decision making process.  If we sense that a product is available only for a limited time, we are naturally drawn in and we show a greater desire for that product.  Scarcity plays a major roll in the demand of all products.

By understanding the scarcity principle we can leverage powerful emotions that trigger people to action.  How can these lessons be applied to getting girls?  In order to maximize success with women.   You must create an image for yourself that communicates to your target that you have a limited time offer with a set expiration date.  This will naturally increase your personal demand.  Have you heard the old adage “We want what we can’t have.” We have all experienced the psychological effects of the scarcity principle.  Leveraging these powerful emotions is one way to become more persuasive.

I like to draw the comparison to an ice cream truck that drives through the neighborhood on a summer afternoon.  Children hear the music playing and scramble to find their parents or someone who can purchase the ice cream.  The children know that they have a limited time constraint before the truck drives away.  This time constraint provides the ice cream an element of scarcity that drives children to demand the product.  It is not just because kids like ice cream, they are also influenced by the element of scarcity.

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How Do You Get Girls

Is Venusian Science A Scam?

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Venus is the God of love and attraction.  Venusian Science is the study of the attraction and seduction process.  At Venusian Science they have created intense training material that teaches students to maximize success with women.  The training course covers social dynamics, persuasion and influence.

If you are experiencing difficulty understanding the attraction and seduction process, or just looking to improve your game and date higher quality women then Venusian Science is for you.

Social scientists have spent 50 years researching factors that influence our decision making processes.  By understanding these factors you can learn to be more persuasive and maximize your success with women.  No Tricks, No Venusian Science Scams.

Venusian Science Scam?

There are a lot of “Venusian Science Scam” sites out there saying that Venusian Science is a clone of other pick-up artist material.  It is important to realize that the dating advice, love guru, pick-up artist industry is extremely competitive.  There are thousands of “gurus” or “experts” that profess to be the best at what they do.  The truth is that men have been approaching women since the beginning of time.  There is not one specific “guru” who invented the attraction and seduction process.

Authentic Smile

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My goal is to teach men “How To Get The Girl” of their dreams. Each day I focus on factors that influence the attraction and seduction process. I try to provide advice that will help you improve your game and maximize success with women. Usually the advice is focused on social dynamics, persuasion and influence. Today I would like to emphasize the importance of an authentic smile. A smile is possibly the most critical pieces of the puzzle. A smile is often more important then words. Your smile has a positive effect on all who see it.

Social scientists have found that your smile influences all types of social interactions. People even have the ability to distinguish between authentic and inauthentic smiles even thought the differences are very subtle. If you fake a smile women have the ability to see right through and they will respond in a negative manner. You may have heard the old adage, “Smile and world smiles with you.” In order to maximize success with women it is important to approach women using a truly authentic smile. Nothing is more attractive to a woman then happiness.

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How To Get The Girl

Mirroring Behavior

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The reason that you are reading this blog is to improve your game and learn “How To Get A Girl” to like you. Each day I try to share a small piece of wisdom that could help during the attraction and seduction process. Generally, the advice is intended to help you learn social dynamics with women and help you become more persuasive.

The concept that I would like to teach today has to do with mirroring your targets behavior. Going along the same lines as yesterday’s blog post titled “Accentuate Similarities” which emphasized that similarities make us feel comfortable and we prefer to associate with people who are like us. When we match the behavior of our target we increase our likeability and create feelings of trust. There has been much research performed by social psychologists on the topic of matching behavior. Whether you are in a job interview, in a sales presentation or introducing yourself to a woman at the bar. Mirroring behavior makes social interaction seem smoother and creates a bond between two people.

For example, if you are at a nightclub and you approach a beautiful woman. You notice that she is standing with perfect posture, with her arms crossed and she is chewing gum in a aggressive way. It is in your favor to stand with perfect posture fold your arms and chew your gum with the same intensity. The matched similarities in your body language with create a bond between you and she will feel a natural inclination to associate with you.

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How To Get A Girl

Accentuate Similarities

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Men are constantly asking us “How Do You Get A Girl” to like you. In an attempt to help men improve their game and attract women. I try to teach lessons in social dynamics that will help during the attraction and seduction process. The principle that I would like to discuss today has to with our decision making behavior. Social Scientists have found that we have a tendency to feel especially positive toward subtle things that we associate with ourselves. Similarities and commonalities make us feel comfortable and thus we favor people who have similarities with us.

How does this apply to getting girls? In order to maximize success with women. It is very important to be observant in your social interactions with women. Try to identify genuine similarities that exist between you and your target. I’m not advocating that you invent or fabricate similar characteristic or attributes to gain the favor of women. I’m simply stating that if you share similarities and bring them to the surface in conversation before you seek their compliance.  You will increase your success.  Anything from a similar age, beliefs, hobbies, hometown and alma mater are good examples of similarities. Be mindful and observant of women and try your best to identify similarities.

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How Do You Get A Girl

Touting Weaknesses

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When men ask the question “How Can I Get Girls?” I like to share examples of social science and behavioral science that can help you to be more persuasive with women during the attraction and seduction process. When approaching women we are striving to demonstrate high-value and promote our strengths. If you’re not careful you can come across as arrogant and conceded. One interesting persuasion technique used to build trust is “touting weaknesses.” This approach may seem self-defeating, but by mentioning a slight draw-back or small personal flaw. You create the perception that you are honest and trustworthy. When you build this perception in the mind of your target you position yourself to be more persuasive when promoting your genuine strengths.

It is important that you identify only minor flaws and joke about them. By volunteering negative information to your target, you show that you realize that you aren’t perfect and you can joke about it. Then when you promote one of your genuine strengths you don’t seem conceded. This technique can help improve you likeability and show that you have a sense of humor.

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How Can I Get Girls

Strong Opinions

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People are always asking us “How Do You Get Girls” This is a very loaded question. So I always try to provide a small piece of advice that will help during the attraction and seduction process. If you are like most people when you feel strongly about something you want to tell the world exactly why you are right. But even when you have credentials or are knowledgeable on the topic there is a difficult social barrier to overcome. As you attempt to express your opinion to others and persuade them, you come across boastful and arrogant. This doesn’t improve your likeability and chances are they will be less inclined to follow your advice.

How does this apply to pick-up science, venusian science, and getting girls? When you’re engaged in conversation with a female and she suddenly begins says objectionable commentary. Swallow your pride and nod your head. If you try to persuade or influence her opinion she will likely take offense.

Successful pick-up artists avoid conflict and blatant objections. Instead just smile and say “Wow! that’s very interesting!” It’s not worth creating an awkward moment or damaging your perceived image.

Example: You’re at a bar or nightclub and you’re talking with a beautiful woman. She is rambling on about conservative politics and how much she loved former president George W. Bush. She is talking about how she enjoyed his eloquent oratory skills. Instead of calling her out and raising objection on the topic. Just smile nod and say “Wow! that’s very interesting!” Swallowing your pride and moving forward will earn you more points and improve your likeability.

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How Do You Get Girls

The Most Interesting Man in the World

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In order to learn “How To Get The Girl” of your dreams it is important to learn from the most interesting man in the world. The Dos Equis man. You’ve seen the commercials. There’s a handsome old gentleman surrounded with beautiful women at the bar. There is a narrator with a distinguished voice that says.

He once had an awkward moment, just to see how it feels.

If he were to pat you on the back, you would list it on your resume.

If he were to punch you in the face, you’d have to fight off the urge to thank him.

If he were to mail a letter without postage, it would still get there.

Every time he goes for a swim, dolphins appear.

Sharks have a week dedicated to him.

Even his enemies list him as their emergency contact.

He’s the most interesting man in the world…

(Then the handsome old gentleman speaks)

“Stay thirsty my friends!”

You don’t need to be the most interesting guy in the world to get the girl of your dreams. You just need to be the most interesting man in the bar.

How do you become the most interesting guy in the bar? You need to need to be like agent 007. Smooth with your routines, confident in your approach and comfortable in your environment. When we demonstrate high value and interact with people around us we become enchanting. Women are naturally attracted to men of high-value.

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How To Get The Girl

Venusian Science Scam?

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At Venusian Science they have their hands on some incredible science. And it’s all about men attracting women.

If you’re out there in the dating arena, and you want to make sure that you get the very best results, you need to make sure that you know exactly what you are doing and what result you expect to get. This is where our process comes in.

Years of research have brought them to a place where they can accurately identify the social dynamics that inform every single attraction interaction event possible. Whether you’re meeting a woman for the first time or the tenth time, they know exactly what you need to do to make her feel attracted to you.

No Tricks, No Venusian Science Scams.

No tricks. No magic. There are a bunch of ‘Venusian Science scam’ sites out there on the Internet that may try and paint a different picture when it comes to pick-up and social dynamics. But they have got here through hard work, and their system has helped thousands of men find the woman of their dreams, as well as have lots of fun along the way.

In the past ‘dating experts’ have talked about chemical reactions and pick up lines and so on. This is all well and good, but with Venusian Science, they have real scientific principles that nail down the dynamics in the attraction process. This helps you move the conversation where you want it to go, and gain a positive interaction from any contact.