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Attraction, Behavioral Science, Confidence, Dating, Enchantment, Getting Girls, Good Cause, Guy Kawasaki, How Can I Get Girls, Likability, Pick-Up Artist, Psychology, PUA, Relationships, Seduction, Social Dynamics, Social Science, Trustworthiness
Enchantment
Men frequently ask the question “How Can I Get Girls?” In order to maximize success with women. You must learn to be persuasive and enchanting. How does one become enchanting? Best-selling author and serial entrepreneur Guy Kawasaki recently wrote a book titled Enchantment. The book explores highly successful entrepreneurs like Steve Jobs (Apple), Richard Branson (Virgin) and Tony Hsieh (Zappos) and explains how they were enchanting. He explains that enchantment is delighting people with your ideas, causes and passions. It is the tool to influence peoples hearts, minds and actions to bring about change.
Guy Kawasaki explains the 3 pillars of enchantment:
1.) Likability
2.) Trustworthiness
3.) Good Cause
I believe that the 3 pillars of enchantment apply directly to the attraction and seduction process. With a little practice we can become enchanting too.
Likability – Likability starts with a great smile. Not just with your mouth, but with your eyes also. A nice firm hand shake that doesn’t seem fake and the right wardrobe. Always dress appropriately in a way that communicate “I respect you. I dress like you.”
Trustworthiness – You must trust others before they will trust you. When you first meet someone new you must think “How can I help this person” not “How can they help me”
Good Cause – Your cause should be an extension of yourself. Guy Kawasaki explains that your cause can be a product, service, idea or organization. Once you are confident with yourself and your cause you will become enchanting.
Once you become enchanting you will become unstoppable.
Happy Hunting
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